In constructing their identity, each individual forges a comprehensive representation of their group of belonging. This group can be defined by various aspects such as economic, social, political, cultural, or religious. The concept of “We” emerged from the work of psychoanalyst René Kaes in the psychology of social identity in 1993. According to Sondes Zouaghi and Denis Darpy, the family transmits not only a genetic inheritance, but also an identity-based, symbolic, and phantasmatic inheritance that consciously and unconsciously influences individual choices.

While the “Self” represents the internalization of our singularity, the “We” captures the family or group identity as it is understood and integrated by each member of the group. Thus, the concept of “We” is highly personal for each individual, distinct from that of other members of the same group. Social identity and individual identity impact the individual along a continuum ranging from the Self to the We.

In a modern society where tribes and physical or virtual communities are proliferating, the concept of “We” takes on particular importance. These diverse groups can influence the individual without necessarily requiring a sense of belonging. According to Sondes Zouaghi and Denis Darpy, “We” and “Self” are complex concepts, combining a real vision of the group with an ideal vision corresponding to the desired qualities of that group. The concept of “We” can be applied to any small group within which an individual is emotionally invested and experiences positive feelings.